This may take a bit of investigation at first. Look for signs that he is calling his mother when he is not with you. Actually calling his mother is a good sign. Another tell tale sign is the way his house looks. Might be that he spends his weeknights being tended to by mama, evident by creases in his jeans that he has never sent off to the dry cleaners. Look in his freezer as well. Tupperware containers filled with meals labeled by the day of the week could mean something beside OCD.
As time goes on though you will realize that the obsession becomes a little weird. There is nothing wrong with a man loving his mom, even making sure that she is always okay. You will realize that the closer YOU get to your man, the closer his mama pulls and her main goal is to get you out of the picture.
This means that she will comment about your jeans being too tight, the size of your boobs, the authenticity of your cooking and will make comments to undermine you every chance she gets. By Sarah Burke. By Lyndsie Robinson. Search Search for:. About Contact Privacy Policy. Facebook Instagram Pinterest. What's the deal? Share this article now! Have something to add? For this reason, many of these guys never learned to stand on their own two feet and struggle to accept accountability within their relationships.
Further, she will judge you harshly for not catering to her son in the manner that she does. By continuing to use this site, you agree to our updated Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. Ask anyone who has dated a mama's boy. You will constantly be put on the back burner, he will always compare you to her, and those extra set of keys to his house?
Those scrambled eggs you whip up every morning? His mom makes them better. You forgot to order ketchup on his burger? But not only are you doing it wrong, but someone else does it much better than you. Just go ahead and run away now and never look back. Even if the issue has absolutely nothing to do with her, she will always feel comfortable chiming in because her son gives her free rein to do and say as she pleases.
Whether it be a simple disagreement or a heated argument between you and your partner, his mom will always have the final word on how the two of you should proceed in your relationship. How about a future mother-in-law who has her sights set on completely ruining your wedding day? But if you think your big day will be all about you, think again. When you go gown shopping with your own mother and your bridesmaids, his mom will want to tag along, too.
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